Is a reference a requirement? What if I don’t have one?

YES. This is a two part question. Yes- your listed reference MUST be verifiable. However, if you are new and of legal age (18+) you may obtain a verification by Me in a couple of ways. Please reach out if that is the case, & know you will be asked to provide some information to verify who you are, for O/our shared safety, that will be handled with utmost professionalism and discretion.

This is My first BDSM session, what should I expect?

Ah, how exciting! I’m sure you’ve obtained plenty of ideals from the web and specifically pornography. Well, a good way to get a taste of My style and what you may expect is to purchase some of My clips. They range from sensual to sadistic and cover a vast amount of fetishes. you may expect a consensual BDSM scene, tailored around My desire of how I would like you to serve Me, and your curiousities/fetishes/interests that align with My own. This is NOT and escort service. Regardless of the picture porn may paint, there is NO sexual conduct and I am certainly never nude * laughs *

Is anything about your personal boundaries…negotiable?

No.

What are your hard limits?

Thanks for asking! I DO NOT do heavy degradation/psychological terror/horror scenes…golden/roman/brown. No RP involving incest, CNC, Race play, ABDL, nudity on My end or switching, sexual conduct.

So, What are you into Domina?

All kinds of delicious debauchery! I have an entire page dedicated to that here. Although I listed several things I am not interested in, there is still a massive amount of fetishes and kinks out there to explore and play with! Over the years, I’ve cultivated a taste for what I do / don’t prefer to do. I value genuine chemistry & part of that is being authentic with who I am. The ideal scene for Me is sensual, seductive and slightly sadistic. I enjoy incorporating alot of slave training & protocol as well as creative bondage. Roleplay, that isn’t an entire movie script is also very enjoyable to Me. Foot & boot worship are another big interest of Mine (These are award winning feet after all!) as well as tease & denial. I tend to be verbally teasing and encouraging as well.

Define “SENSUAL”

sen·su·al

/ˈsen(t)SH(o͞o)əl/

adjective

adjective: sensual

1. relating to or involving gratification of the senses and physical, especially sexual, pleasure.

   "the production of the ballet is sensual and passionate"

ARTICLE: “Sensuality is about paying attention to your senses. We have five senses through which to experience the universe: taste, touch, sight, sound, and smell, and we also have “conceptual thought,” our mind or what we think about. A sixth sense, not just an M. Night Shyamalan movie from the nineties. We are sensing beings.

For me, sensuality is more of a mindset than it is a “Sexual Style,” in the words of Huffington Post. Paying attention to your senses requires being in the present moment. “

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This quote is also how I relate to sensuality. I do not believe it is sexual gratification AT ALL. In fact, intimacy is quite the same. you may think of intimacy as a term for “sex”. However, being understood by someone is also very intimate.

So, please understand when I use “SENSUAL” as a term throughout My website this is My reference to it. It isn’t some code for sexual gratification in anyway. And, this is not an escort service. So, do not ask.

Thank you.